What if Things Go Wrong?
If things start to go south when you're car shopping, here's what to do:
Use your intuition.
Many shoppers don't pay attention to their feelings. If you feel uncomfortable, then something is probably wrong with the way the salesperson is treating you. In some cases, the salesperson could be exerting a subtle form of pressure, either by using manipulative language or trying to create a sense of obligation. Try to pinpoint the source of your discomfort and act accordingly.
Walk away.
For some reason, there are shoppers who feel they have an obligation to stay in a dealership, even if they feel uncomfortable with the way the salesman is treating them. You're not a prisoner: Leave if you don't like the way things are going. You don't even have to say good-bye, thank anyone or apologize. Just leave. You can always approach the same dealership later, either through the Internet department or by coming back another time, when you'll probably get a different salesman.
Ask for a new salesperson.
If you don't like the way you are being treated, ask to speak with the sales manager. Politely explain the problem and ask for a different salesperson. But be aware that this might not improve things: The salespeople might all be working from the same script. In that case, take your business elsewhere.
Talk with the general manager.
If you're committed to staying in the negotiation but you still don't like the treatment you're getting, ask to speak with the general manager. Many salespeople must enforce the rules of the dealership if they want to keep their jobs. The general manager has more power to waive or bend the rules to please customers. And merely asking for the general manager will likely change the tone of the discussion.
If you have purchased a car and, for whatever reason, changed your mind about it, it's important to understand that that the dealership will probably not "unwind the deal" and take the car back. A dealership is usually under no legal obligation to take back a car, but it is sometimes possible to negotiate a return.
Keep going higher.
If you can't resolve the problem with the general manager, take it up with the owner of the dealership, whether that is an individual, a local corporation or a dealer group. It's best to handle this by phone, e-mail or letter so you have a record of the discussions, which might be acrimonious if you have reached this stage. Keep in mind, however, that you can't always rely on the car manufacturer as a court of last resort. Carmakers have some control over dealership franchises through customer service surveys (a poor score can affect allocations of car models, for example), but they can't force dealers to change how they treat car buyers.
Take it public.
If you actually completed a sale and have a serious problem with it that the dealership is unwilling to address, you can do a number of things, ranging from sharing your experiences with the world via an online review up to a small-claims court action or a full-scale lawsuit. You could also file a complaint with the Better Business Bureau, assuming that the dealership is a member or cares about a BBB rating. Some people have resolved their problem by going to local TV stations or newspapers' investigative reporters — or by threatening to do so.
Car shopping should be an enjoyable experience. And as more dealerships come to understand that it's their job to make you comfortable and fulfill your needs as they sell you a car, we're getting closer to that goal.
Now it's your job to work with dealerships that merit your business. If you do, your next car buying experience could be a real pleasure.