MINI of Annapolis

I took my 2010 mini cooper that I purchased from an auction at a great price. Wanted to make sure everything was fine with it. Long story short they charged me $590 for oil change, vehicle check and the required service for the mileage. They told me I needed a program FRM incorrect coding for $235, replace valve cover gasket for leak at $353.85, replace water pump found coolant leak at $781.84. I declined the additional recommendations. Took my car to mid Atlantic rover where I took my jaguar and they found NO ISSUES that needed to be fixed. Didn't even charge me to look at it. The FRM coding issue is a dealer fix but i will NOT use Mini of Annapolis. don't know if their deception was because I'm a woman or just greed but they lost my business or referrals.